Sexual Compulsive Behaviours and Porn Addiction can cause a great deal of distress and harm to the lives of individuals and their partners and families.  

Sexual Compulsive Behaviours/Porn addiction can have various effects on our everyday lives, if you are noticing any of the following it may be helpful to check in with a professional:

  • If you are noticing more and more of your valuable time is taken up watching porn or engaging in risky behaviours.
  • If the use of the behaviour ie porn/escorts/webcam provides immediate relief from stress/boredom/painful emotions but this is short lived.
  • If you have tried to stop this behaviour several times and find yourself returning to this behaviour and old habits.
  • If the behaviour continues despite having impacts on your daily life, relationships and your own wellbeing.
  • If the behaviour has you going round in vicious circles of secrecy, shame, guilt and hopelessness.

I have worked successfully and compassionately with many clients supporting them on their journey of recovery.  My role is to help you understand why these behaviours developed, their patterns and what is continuing to maintain these behaviours. Compulsive behaviours may have been helpful to you in the past, helping you to escape or regulate difficult emotions and pain but have now become unhelpful and harmful to yourself and all you value in life.

There is hope, let’s start your journey today and the process of change to a successful recovery.

How I Work

Whilst I always maintain a high standard of professionalism, I do endeavour to create a relaxed, welcoming atmosphere within my sessions. 

From my own experiences of counselling, I understand and appreciate that it is important that you or you and your partner feel at ease with me to be able to talk about the “difficult stuff”.

For those that find it difficult to talk openly (and I understand it is not easy to share your most personal and private details with a stranger), I adopt a range of therapeutic interventions and creative techniques to support you in expressing your thoughts and needs.

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What My Clients Say

During my many years working as a counsellor, in both private practice and with Relate, I’ve had the privilege of working with many individuals, couples and families whom I’ve been able to help and support to affect some very positive changes to their relationships. Read on for their experience of working with me.

Joanne, really helped Ben and I explore what was happening in our relationship, we often went away from our sessions reflecting on various aspects of our relationship that we had not really considered before.  

Joanne was really helpful in supporting us to view our relationship in a more postive way and supported us through the change process.

I am not sure that we would have survived without her.

We are very grateful for her support.

Ben and Isabell
UK

I really do not think our relationship would have survived if we had not have sought counselling, Joanne enabled us to talk to each other something we had struggled with when it came to discussing intimacy.  We both felt very comfortable and safe in Joanne's presence and I think it was this that enabled us to be honest and open.  Thank you Joanne

Pat and Steve
Coventry

Thank you for the help that you have given us, you helped open our eyes as to what was happening in our relationship and the impact the past was having on this.  We have learned to talk together openly about the past and this has helped us going forward.  We are now looking forward to a happier future.  Thank you Joanne.

Liz and Brian
Norfolk

Online Counselling Services

I offer a range of online counselling services and you can find out more about these below.

I’m often asked how many counselling sessions are needed. As a therapist I am guided by you, the client, as to how long therapy should last but, to gain the best therapeutic outcomes, I would suggest we work together for six sessions initially on a weekly basis. Throughout our work together we will regularly review your progress and at the end of the six weeks, it is your decision as to how we proceed.

If you decide you would like counselling, after you get in touch with me, I will send you a copy of my Online Counselling Agreement. The Agreement outlines details about online counselling and the platform I use. It outlines information about how to maintain your safety online, data protection and payment. There is also a Client Information Sheet which asks questions that need to be completed by you and, for couples counselling and family counselling, by the others having counselling with you. Your answers to these questions will enable me to assess and advise you if therapy online is the most appropriate method of counselling for you and your family member(s).

If you aren’t sure which counselling service is right for you and your situation, or if you have any questions for me, please get in touch and we can discuss the available options.

Individual Relationship Counselling

Individual Relationship Counselling

Have you noticed that your relationships seem to follow the same patterns, or you are finding it difficult to initiate or maintain a relationship? If so, then individual relationship counselling can help you to understand why this is happening and help you break these unhealthy patterns of relating.
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Couples Counselling

Couples Counselling

Couples counselling can be helpful at any time in a couple's relationship but especially at times when trust is broken, or arguments are becoming more frequent. It may be that communication is poor or you feel the relationship is stuck in bad patterns or emotional or physical intimacy has diminished. If you relate to any of these, having someone to listen and empathise can support your journey to a more fulfilling and healthier relationship.
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Psychosexual Therapy

Psychosexual Therapy

Sexual difficulties are not uncommon. Many of us may experience difficulties such as erectile dysfunction or loss of desire at some point in our lives. Psychosexual therapy can be extremely beneficial if you are experiencing sexual difficulties in your relationship. Psychosexual therapy can help you each understand why these issues have evolved, helping you to reengage with sexual intimacy within your relationship.
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Supervision

Supervision

Supervision is a core element of our counselling practice and a requirement of our professional bodies. Clinical supervision is a collaborative process between the supervisor and supervisee and provides an opportunity to explore personal and professional issues in a safe and enabling environment.  It acts as a safeguard for our clients to ensure that we are providing the best possible service to them.
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Breathwork

Breathwork

Breathwork is a natural evidenced based technique/tool which focuses on the conscious control of our breathing. Being in control of our breathing can improve our physical, mental, and emotional well-being.
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